Saturday, June 30, 2007

Los Lunamieleros

Our hotel room had all the essentials: flat screen tv and a bar. It was actually really nice that the room had a fully stocked bar and mini-fridge. Very convenient!

The view from our hotel room.

Dave smoking a Cuban.

A view from one of the restaurants at the resort. Dave and I ate 4 meals just about every day we were there. Breakfast, Lunch, Dinner, and then Late Night Snack. We're going to have a very hard time getting used to being home and not having a buffet or room service available to us at all times.

The resort really was as gorgeous as it looked in the pictures. If you're ever interested in an adults only, all inclusive resort near the Cancun area, then I highly recommend Aventura Spa Palace. I really don't have one negative thing to say about our stay. Dave is interested in exploring the other parts of Mexico on our next vacation but I'd much rather just go back to Aventura. I loved it that much!


I spent most of my time reading and relaxing in the hammock on our balcony or by the beach with a Rum Punch by my side. I finished 5 books in the 8 days we were there!

It rained on us one day while we were there. The rain lasted only one hour and was very cool for us since we've only experienced 3 inches of rain in San Diego ALL YEAR!

One night they had a special honeymooners dinner for all of us. The resort had 1200 rooms (it was big) and there was probably 250 honeymooners there at the same time as us. The honeymooners dinner was a nice meal and a great way to make friends.

Dave and I spent alot of time by the endless pool.

One day we took the 30 minute ferry to the island of Cozumel. A very quiet and quaint little place to visit.

Our hotel had several places on site where we could snorkel. Here is Dave snorkeling in the Caribbean. I attempted to snorkel one day. I put on all the gear and jumped in the water. I saw one fish several feet ahead of me, immediately freaked out, and swam the 3 feet back to the dock. Snorkeling is not for me! The fish look huge under the water!

A recreation of a Mayan dance.

As part of our all-inclusive package, several tours were included. One day we went to the Mayan ruin of Tulum. Super cool and informative! The Mayan people were savage but also intellectually advanced. This is a sacred arch where every year during the solstice, a ray of light is projected from the pyramid onto this site.

Another gorgeous pic of Tulum.

To commemorate our honeymoon, Dave gave me a 3 stone ruby and diamond ring. Rubies are his birth stone, diamonds are mine, and 3 stones to represent our past, present, and future.

*sigh* We're home now. Part of me is so happy to be home (I missed Fluff!) while the other part of me wishes I was back in Mexico.

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Paradise Awaits


For the next 8 days, Dave and I will be sitting by the pool, relaxing, drinking, and eating to our hearts content. Much love til I see you again.

PS - Dave and I prepped for our honeymoon by taking time the day after our wedding to sit and relax by the pool in Yosemite. I needed to work on my tan ;-p

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

He do, I do, We all do

Click on any of the pics to see them larger.


Rehearsing


My bridesmaids and I


Getting Ready


The finished product


The little ones and I


The guys


Dave and I relaxing before the ceremony began


After saying 'I do'


Our cake


Husband and Wife

Monday, June 18, 2007

2 becomes 1


We're Married! (more pics of me not drunk to come later)

Saturday, June 09, 2007

Six


My maid of honor and I. Lately, she's been upset/sad/hurt about something and she wont tell me what is wrong. Seeing her with all these bad feelings pent up inside of her, festering, and growing is killing me.

Friday, June 08, 2007

Seven


Our wedding cake inspiration

Thursday, June 07, 2007

Eight aka Ate

Yesterday I went to the bridal salon for my final fitting. Yes, final fitting. As in after this you get no more. Even though my dress fit perfectly, I attempted to spend 20 minutes walking around the store in my dress. The asian owner was having none of that and kept fast walking behind me and saying "it's ok. You take it off now". I would then walk a figure 8 in front of the mirror and say "just one more second I gotta make sure that I can raise my arms without the dress falling down". The owner would let out a heavy sigh and let me spend 3 minutes raising and lowering my arms.

What can I say? My dress is sooo comfortable and I really like being in it. Now you might be questioning me right now. Comfortable did you say? Yes, very comfortable. A little too comfortable if you ask me. I've been working so hard these past few months and have managed to lose 40 pounds. Now that I know that the dress fits (and really I can't loose any more weight or else the dress will fall off me) I am tempted by all the cookies, cupcakes, and bread items that I've so carefully been avoiding. After yesterday's dress fitting I consumed a cookie, hot dog (at the time it seemed like a good idea), several mini-reese's pb cups, hot pocket, and two graham crackers (that I shared with the cat). Today two cookies called my name. I'm not even sure why my will power is gone but I'm REALLY having a hard time avoiding foods that aren't good for me. Eight more days until the wedding and hopefully by tomorrow I find the restraint to power through this last week without eating everything in sight.



Sharing a graham cracker with the cat. He has never consumed human food and for the most part doesn't know what he is missing. Occasionally he will smell roasted chicken and sniff the air but he never ever jumps on the table or tries to eat the chicken. The exception to this is graham crackers. The cat can smell a graham cracker from across the room and will immediately be all up on me like a fat kid on cake. I'm pretty much forced to share my cookies.

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

Nine Feels Fine

I remember last June I went to my good friend J's wedding. As I sat there as a guest, I saw J's limo pull up and I immediately became overwhelmingly nervous. Not for myself but for J. I almost started to hyperventilate as I sat there and thought of how nervous I was for J and how that meant that I would be 10x more nervous for myself when my time came to walk down the aisle.

I later asked J is she was nervous and she said not at all. Surprisingly this seems to be the common response I hear from already-been brides when I ask if they were nervous. Each has told me that I would be calm when it was my turn. Since I am a naturally nervous Nelly, I really didn't believe them.

Here we are 9 days before my wedding and I can honestly say that I am not in the least bit nervous. I'm calm. I'm serene. I'm feeling like this whole countdown is a little surreal. But I'm not nervous. Everything so far has felt easy and natural. Sure lately I've cried at things that in the past wouldn't have made me cry but really that's only one of two ways that I have showed stress these past few weeks.

The other way? I've developed Bride's ADD. I'm normally a very focused person and now all of a sudden I can't sit and work on a project for longer then 15 minutes. My work day is entirely unproductive since I'm constantly interrupting myself. My recent work day schedule:
8:00 Arrive
8:05 Look at Personal Email
8:15 Check Work Email. Glance at new messages.
8:20 Decide to Check MSN news
8:25 Bathroom break? ok
8:30 Teleconference
8:35 I have muted the teleconference and am now looking at celebrity gossip on the internet.
8:55 What's in the soda machine? I love diet coke.
9:00 Sit at desk committed to do some work.
9:10 Look at weather on-line. A high of 73 is expected in Yosemite.
9:15 Check work email again. Glance at messages again but don't answer any of them.
9:20 Chat with admin assistant.
... And so goes my day. Luckily, I'll be on vacation for 3 weeks beginning this Friday. I don't have a lot of wedding stuff left to do but it will probably be a good thing that I wont be trapped in my office feeling completely useless.

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

In 10 Days ...

Monday, June 04, 2007

This is Where I Breath

I'm back from inner city LA and I didn't get shot. Honestly, the students were the most well behaved group of high school students that I have ever seen. A little too well behaved if you ask me. At a few points in my presentation I expected the students to laugh and instead they just sat there with their perfect posture and hands clasped nicely as they sat in their desks. Except for the 2 pregnant girls that I saw, you would have thought that this was the brown colored equivalent of Stepford High School. Surprising to say the least ...
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Dave and I finally had a relaxing weekend. Actually we did a lot but after 10 weekends in a row where we were running around with our heads cut off, we were very appreciative of a weekend where there was a nice balance of stuff to get done and time to relax. We even went for a 3 mile hike on both Saturday and Sunday! 3 miles! David! The man who refuses to exercise! Excuse me while I pick my jaw up off the ground.
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Our photo montage has been completed for awhile (this is the rough draft version). It sure does brighten my mood every time I see it. I love that boy and can't wait to marry him in eleven days!

Something that gives me an Insta-Smile

Thursday, May 31, 2007

Integral Questions

Tomorrow I'll be attending a career fair for high school students in inner city LA. For the 1st half of the day I'll be giving a short presentation in a classroom as groups of 30 high school students are cycled in and out of the room. The other half of the day I'll be standing at a booth so that students can collect brochures, pamphlets, etc.

OK. So knowing that these are high school students FROM inner city LA, what do I wear???

Option A: Button up shirt with business logo on it and jeans. Is more casual and portrays my agency's true culture. The best part of my work is that I'm not always trapped in my office and I get to wear jeans everyday to work (if I want).


Option B: Cute black & maroon pin stripped capris with maroon dressy tank and black sparkly sandals. Very cute and hip (did I really just say hip?).


Note: Pic A is from a PBS special that I was asked to participate in a few years ago. Pic B is from oldnavy.com. It's not my actual outfit but it gives you a good idea of what outfit B is all about. Except the shoes. The shoes make me want to gag.

Seriously email me and give me your opinion. I'm really stressing out over this decision. But then again, I'm getting married in 2 weeks and it seems like these days everything either stresses me out or makes me cry.

tikiflame at gmail dot com

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

Today Is a New Day

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Disappointment

My bachlorette party was this weekend. Having been in a sorority I can say that I've attended many, many different types of bachlorette parties: Las Vegas, wild nights at clubs, weekend at Disneyland. I've done it all. I've also spent several hundred dollars at each party when you add up travel, drunken transportation, gifts, alcohol, food, lodging, etc. Bachlorette parties are never cheap nights.

I wanted to do something a little different for my bachlorette party so I requested that we do a long weekend of wine tasting in Temecula. To save costs I offered to let all the girls stay at my house. On Friday night everyone arrived and we went to a local brewery that specialized in slow food. On Saturday we woke up super early and went win tasting. On Sunday we chilled and went to the beach and then bar hopping. On Monday everyone went home.

Maybe I had too high of expectations but I can't help but be disappointed by the whole weekend. One of my bridesmaids (BM #2) did nothing but complain about how much money this wedding is costing her. She has never been a bridesmaid before and doesn't realize that most other brides require each BM to purchase shoes, a dress they select, as well as have their hair, makeup, and manicures done on the big day. I've tried to be a sympathetic bride and have given everyone the option of what shoes they want to wear (as long as they are nude color I could care less) and whether or not they want their hair, makeup, and nails done professionally. I even let them collectively decide on a dress that fit their budgets. That and hotel are pretty much the only costs for the wedding. It just really hurts my feelings that BM #2 feels that I'm not worth the money she is spending to be a part of the big day.

BM #1 poorly planned the weekend. Our wine tasting tour began at 9am. Much too early to enjoy drinking. Our 6 hour tasting trip ended at 2pm, just as everyone else began arriving at the wineries. She forgot to make a lunch reservation so we spent over an hour looking for a place to eat at. And she decided to fly and instead of drive down so I was pretty much the only one with a non-compact car the whole weekend. Going to the bars is fun except when you're the bride and need to drive since you're the only one with a car. It especially becomes less fun when everyone forgets cash for parking and then the bride is stuck paying the parking fee plus later getting a parking ticket for returning to the car 15 minutes late.

Maybe I expect too much from people. Maybe I give too much to people and then become upset when they don't give 110% back to me in return. I've always been the friend who pays for dinner (even when money is tight). The friend who plans the parties. The friend who drives way out of their way to be there when needed. The dependable yet fun friend. I've always just assumed that my friends would do the same for me if I ever asked but sadly I'm obviously wrong.

Making my mood worse, I came to work today to be greeted with a letter of resignation from one of my employees. She returned 2 weeks ago from 5 months of paid maternity leave. Over the past 2 weeks she decided that working and being a mom is too much hard work and that she no longer wants to work. This wouldn't be so bad but in 2 weeks I leave for 3 weeks of leave for the wedding and honeymoon. I was really depending on this employee to take up my slack while I was gone. We all knew that while she was gone for 5 months I worked many late nights and weekends to do her job plus mine. I had assumed that she would gladly pick up my slack while I was gone. Sadly I was wrong. Now I'm left without anyone to help me while I am away and to make matters worse her position wont be filled for several weeks since our budget is super tight this year.

*sigh* I'm just so disappointed today. I'm really taking a hard look at myself and how much I allow others to use me. Maybe it's the wedding that is making me more emotionally turbulent then usual but I'm really sad from the events of the last few days. I'm tired of being the constant giver. Maybe I need to become the taker.

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

One is the Loneliest Number


Me + Not Drinking for 16 weeks + 1/2 Glass of Wine = Half Drunk

Dave left at 5am on Monday morning for a week long meeting in St Louis. I miss that boy something fierce. Seriously, I'm so very, very lonely with out him. All I do is walk around the house moping like a lost little kitty cat. To make myself feel better (and sleep better) I decided to drink a glass of wine. Wine = Happy Me. So happy that I've suddenly become interested in Dancing With the Stars. Have I ever mentioned how much I hate reality tv? (Except MTV's "The Hills". The Hills = pure tv gold).

Summary of Today's Lesson: Wine + Reality TV = Good Stuff.

Moral of the Lesson: I should drink wine more often.

PS - The videographer scanned all our baby/kid pics into the computer so that he could prepare our slide show. He was nice enough to send me a copy of the scanned pics. Isn't 7 year old Dave the cutest thing you have ever seen???

PPS - Go Apolo Ohno!

I Think I Go To Starbucks Too Much

Talking with videographer who will be compilling the photo montage for our wedding slide show. Trying to decide where to meet since our town has 2 coffee shops on every corner (seriously).

Me: Hi. I have the pictures that you need to scan. Would you like to meet at the Starbucks on Vista Way & El Camino Real?

Him: The Starbucks that has the really small parking lot?

Me: Yep. The one that has a dentists office next door.

Him: Yes, I know the one. The one that is located close to the freeway.

Me: Yep. It's also near the Hooters.

Him: Yeah, and it

Me: Let's just stop there. We both obviously know what Starbucks we are talking about. We should probably stop now before we both start describing the baristas and their hobbies after work.

In related news, the videographer should have the photo montage completed by tomorrow (Wednesday!) YAY!

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Hawaiian Cake Recipe

I baked this cake for a small office party that we had this afternoon. Everyone loved this cake (and so do I). So simple and easy to make. The perfect cake for a summer party.



Ingredients:
1 box yellow cake mix
2 small cans of mandarin oranges (drained)
1 regular size tub of cool whip
1 small package of vanilla pudding mix
1 small can of crushed pineapple (drained)

Directions:
1. Prepare yellow cake mix as directed by box. Add chopped and drained mandarin oranges to the cake mix. (I chop the mandarin oranges in the can by sticking the knife in the can and just wiggling it around. Try it, it works)
2. Bake cake
3. Prepare "frosting" by mixing cool whip, vanilla pudding mix, and crushed pineapple. After cake has cooled frost the cake. I also used the frosting as filling between the cake layers.
4. Lick frosting bowl.
5. Garnish with pineapple slices, maraschino cherries (and coconut if you're crazy like that).

The Good Times Were Killing Me

*sigh* Good times, Good times.

(Funny audio of a 911 call from someone who thinks they are dying of a weed overdose)

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Exclamation!

* In 30 days (exactly!) I will be getting married. Holy Cow! Where has the time gone??? I'm dreading the passage of these last 30 days. I love the engagement stage and if I had my way I would be planning my wedding for several more months. Seriously, for me the most important thing was that Dave asked me to marry him. That to me proved that Dave was committed to me and this relationship. The legally wed bit (to me) is just added poof. We already live together, we already have sex, and we already share our lives. I could be wrong but I just don't feel much will change after June 15th.

* According to my to-do list I really don't have much left to do for the wedding but in my head it feels like I am no way near ready for the big day. My wedding dress still hasn't arrived and I'm a bit concerned that since I've lost 35 pounds, the dress wont be able to be taken in enough before the wedding. In other attire related news, today one of my bridesmaids and I plan on going to the bridal store to pick up the bridesmaids dresses. I'm so excited!

* Dave's parents, cousins, and their kids will be visiting this weekend as they drive across the State to spend a week in Disneyland. Our house is still no where near being presentable but at this point I really could care less. So what if one wall is only painted 95%? Who cares about the fact that we don't have baseboards in the living room? Window treatments? Pffffttttt!!!! Actually I do care but after how hard we've worked the past 2 months I've come to realize that this house will be a work in progress for several more months.

* Since I've been dieting, I've avoided cooking and entertaining (too much temptation). Dave has spent the past few months dining on frozen pizzas and Del Taco. Since Dave's family will be coming for a visit I decided to break out our wedding presents and make a respectable meal. On the menu: Stone Brew beer, Heather's Mist wine, green salad with strawberry vineragette, sourdough with baked brie bread, steak, grilled sausage, grilled asparagus, corn, and garlic mashed potatoes.

* I love days when I feel cute. Today I'm wearing my X2 Express Jeans (size itty bitty) that are practically brand new. I bought them several years ago but haven't been able to wear them because of my excess poundage. Now they fit perfectly (not too tight and not too loose).

* Pilates continues to kick my arse. I've so enjoyed these last few weeks and my new work out routine.

* I found this online tool which helps you figure out which clothes fit your body shape best. Quite useful. I've often tried to wear boxy shirts and jackets and been disappointed that they make me look like Frankenstein's younger sister. According to the guidelines of Shape S, boxy tops don't fit my small framed shoulders well. Makes sense (but still doesn't explain why I didn't figure that out on my own).

* Making today even more perfect is that June Gloom has arrived to the coast! Love of June Gloom is the easiest way to detect those of us who are not native coastal dwellers. San Diego regulations state that if you are a Native then you must detest the overcast coastal fog and cool temps. By the way in other San Diego news, we were recently named the most overpriced housing market in the US!

Friday, May 11, 2007

Snobby Indie Princess

A few weeks ago, a blog that I read regularly mentioned her snobby princess attitude toward chinese food. Then at the end of her blog post she asked "what are you snobby about? T.V.? Sports? Unicorns? Tell me". Initially I thought that I wasn't snobby about anything but then I realized that I'm a California snob. Yet, being a Cali snob is nothing to write home about since we can't help it if we're the best State in the Union.

My Indisputable Reasons Why California Rules:
* Food - We're the #1 ag state and produce most of the Nation's food. And we're not talking about the boring basics (corn and wheat), nope we got all the good foods like avocados, oranges, strawberries, watermelon, and peaches.
* Movies - Hello Hollywood. With out it we wouldn't have cinematic gold like "The Notebook" and "Legally Blond".
* Surfers - California has the best surf conditions in the US (Hawaii doesn't count because I don't want it to). Not to mention that any girl loves a hot surf boy on a board. How could you not?
* Wine - We have Napa AND Santa Barbara. Enough said.
* Culture - We're liberal, we're diverse, we're eccentric, and we're health conscious. Awesome.
* Good Stuff - Everyone calls us fruits & nuts but then they forget that all the good stuff started in California back when the rest of the Nation thought that it was quirky and weird. Examples: yoga, sushi, and tofu.

Anyways I digress, as I said being a Cali snob was nothing to write home about. Then yesterday I received an email from my future mother in law (FMIL). There's only 5 weeks until the wedding and suddenly discussing what we plan to eat for breakfast the day after the wedding has become a topic of utmost importance. In the email FMIL mentioned buying bagels from the local grocery store. At this point my head turned bright red and began spinning.

It's then that I realized that the one thing I am a snob about is Food. It's not that I detest bagels, no in fact I love bagels. I'm just a snob about the source of my food. I snub anything pre-packaged, frozen, or canned (with the exception of Diet Coke and Lean Cuisines). To me buying bagels from the grocery store is disgusting but buying bagels from Panera that are fresh baked are okay. Gelatin fruit cups are disgusting but fresh fruit cups are awesome (and hard to find). I would never eat Leggo Eggo waffles but I love whole wheat waffles. White bread would never pass my lips but I love whole grain wheat bread. Canned veggies are a definite no, but I could eat fresh veggies by the truck load. You get the idea. I can't help how I feel and this is a topic that I feel pretty strongly about.

Is anyone else as snobby as me about something?

Wednesday, May 09, 2007

This is Why Dave Loves Our Neighborhood

I'm in the State Capitol on a business trip. Dave calls me on the phone to let me know that a picture of our neighbor's house is in the paper. Seriously, this house is located 2 doors down from ours. I thought we had met all the neighbors but obviously I was wrong. Meet our neighbor:



Escondido a quiet corner of 'D.C. Madam's' life

By: QUINN EASTMAN - Staff Writer

ESCONDIDO -- Deborah Jeane Palfrey, the woman recently accused by federal prosecutors of running a Washington, D.C., prostitution business by phone from California, owns a house in Escondido, but her neighbors said last week that it provided her a quiet refuge, rather than a remote command post.

Palfrey, also dubbed the "D.C. Madam," revealed some of her clients' identities on a much-hyped 20/20 show on ABC on Friday night.

Palfrey's next-door neighbor at her house, north of the Escondido Country Club, Lea Beaver, estimated that Palfrey visited her Escondido house only a few days each month. Beaver said she didn't notice an unusual amount of traffic.

Palfrey once invited Beaver over when Palfrey's mother, Blanche, was visiting, she said.

"She said she was an interior designer," said Beaver, adding that the idea made sense to her because each room inside Palfrey's house was painted a different pastel color.

A federal grand jury indicted Palfrey in March on money-laundering charges connected with her alleged escort service. She previously pleaded guilty to pimping charges in the early 1990s in San Diego.

Court documents support neighbors' views that Palfrey did not use the Escondido house, which is now for sale, as part of her business, called Pamela Martin and Associates. The business is described on Palfrey's Web site as a "high-end adult fantasy firm" that operated in the Washington, D.C., area for 13 years.

Court documents show that federal agents hauled stacks of financial records and a computer from Palfrey's primary residence in Vallejo after obtaining search warrants in October.

But they did not obtain search warrants for her home on the 1400 block of Vaquero Glen.

Her indictment says she had checks or money orders mailed to her at a post office box in Benicia, and had calls forwarded to her cell phone.

Her attorney, Montgomery Sibley, did not return calls from the North County Times.

Raccoons

Deputy Secretary of State Randall Tobias resigned in April when ABC News, to whom Palfrey has given her phone records, asked him whether he was a client.

While other past clients in Washington may fear more revelations from Palfrey, several of her Escondido neighbors had a more mundane concern last week: Raccoons have dug a hole in her shingle roof.

"We covered it today with plastic," Beaver said.

The neighborhood around Vaquero Glen seemed idyllic last week, with a few children riding their bicycles and skateboards in the street.

Palfrey's house has a "For Sale" sign in front, but all of the real estate agent's brochures are gone. The driveway, which is covered with brown fluff from a nearby tree, makes it clear that nobody has swept it for weeks.

As part of her indictment in March, federal authorities froze the Vaquero Glen house along with Palfrey's Vallejo home, bank accounts and gold coins. The move requires court approval for a sale and prevents the sale of the Escondido house from benefiting Palfrey while she is under indictment.

Even so, Beaver said a real estate agent has been showing the house to possible buyers and one in particular seems interested.

Vaquero Glen residents said they learned of Palfrey's legal troubles when a property forfeiture notice was posted on her door in October.

"It was a pretty big surprise," said Ann Boozer, who lives next door to her on the other side.

But she said she had a clue something was happening in September when she called Palfrey about a gardening issue and Palfrey told her that her real estate agent would handle it, because she was moving to Germany.

Palfrey made a brief visit to the Escondido house a few months ago with a tow truck, Boozer said.

Palfrey's lawyers, in federal court filings, say that she has left the United States twice since October.

Several neighbors said they had been interviewed by TV reporters on their front lawns and were tired of the attention.

Palfrey bought the Escondido house in 2000. It still has a mortgage and its most recent property tax bill has not been paid, according to county records.

Palfrey grew up in Pennsylvania, attended college in Florida and moved to San Diego in the 1980s, according to The Associated Press.

She previously owned a condominium on Mount Alifan Drive near Genesee Avenue in San Diego, according to county records.

She was arrested by San Diego police in 1990 on charges of pimping, pandering and extortion. She did not appear at trial but fled to the Canadian border before pleading guilty to pimping charges in 1992 in San Diego Superior Court and serving 18 months in prison, according to The Associated Press.

Monday, May 07, 2007

Things That Remind Me of Jr High

Funions
Dr Pepper
Flannel Shirts
Stone Temple Pilots

Honestly, I'd Rather Not Be There

About 2 years ago, while I was still working in the Bay Area, the house across the street from our office went up in flames. A man (who lived there alone) was making himself a mid day snack of bacon and eggs when he started a small grease fire. By the time he drove down the 1/2 mile driveway the house was completely up in flames. (Our office was located out in the middle of wine country so it was kinda rural). That day I had decided to go home early (for no real reason other then I was bored) so I missed the whole excitement. The next day when I came into work, I looked out my office window and saw the charred skeletal remains of the house.

Six months ago a brand new apartment complex located a few blocks from our office went up in flames. The flames shot up over 100 feet from the 4 story building. The flames and smoke smothered our office. That day I had decided to take the day off work (for a reason I don't even remember). Once again I missed all the excitement.



Today, a woman was driving her car down the street with 3 loose cats in the car. The woman lost control of her car, drove between my building and the tree lined sidewalk, before hitting a tree and then the wall below my office window. The entire office shook with the impact from the car. Five minutes earlier I had decided to grab an iced green tea from the local coffee shop. I wasn't going to get a tea but one of my office mates convinced me at the last minute.

Once again, I missed all the excitement. Coincidence or not???

Friday, May 04, 2007

Obligatory Picture Post

To see each picture bigger, just click on the thumbnail.

One of the biggest selling points of this house was the fact that it had cathedral ceilings in the living room and master bedroom. Big mistake!!! 17 foot high ceilings meant that painting the house on our own was a major bitch. To complete the painting we had to rent 2 story scaffolding from Home Depot and Dave had to perch on the very top while attempting to paint. In this picture Dave is standing on the 1st story of the scaffolding. While he was on the 2nd story I was too busy pacing the floor to be able to take a picture of him.

Dave and I on the way to Yosemite. Notice my awesome new sun glasses. $15.99 at Target.

While we were touring the Yosemite valley floor it decided to snow on us.

Here I am ready to kick some ass at the Jack-N-Jill shower. I hate opening presents at showers. I think it's SOOOO boring to watch someone open each present and exclaim "OOOOooo! Just what I wanted. Thank you." I feel like saying "ummm ... Don't act surprised that you just got a toaster. You registered for the damn thing. Of course it's 'just what you wanted'. This is such a waste of time". So of course I was not looking forward to the fact that my future MIL was insisting that I open presents at our shower.

Our new bamboo floors and couch. I am in love with this room! I can't wait to buy curtains so that we can complete the room. Here is a picture of what the room originally looked like.

I wasn't going to pay a calligrapher $2 per invitation to do the writing on our invites. Instead I bought a book at a local hobby store for $15 and learned how to write calligraphy so that I could do all the invitations myself. I think they turned out pretty nice if I say so myself.

This is my mom, me and grandma at my bridal shower. It actually turned out to be a rather pleasant experience (my mom and I have a tumultuous relationship).

Thursday, May 03, 2007

I be up in the gym just working on my fitness

For four solid years I worked out at the gym 6 days a week. My common routine included 4 days of 50 minutes cardio, 2 days of total body strength training, 1 day yoga or pilates, and 1 day kickboxing or step. This all stopped a year ago when I hurt my back. For 4 months after the accident I wasn't allowed to exercise (beyond walking). When it came time for me to get back in the rhythm of working out I had moved to San Diego and my work days were long and hard. When I finally finished my 10 hour work day I was often tired which became my common excuse as to why I should skip the gym that day. I occasionally participated in a weekly yoga class as well as a weekly belly dancing class (fun but expensive) but I never could get back to my gym routine which I loved so much. I've said it before, I'm not naturally skinny. I need to go to the gym to stay at a reasonable weight and not to mention I find exercising to be a completely cathartic and emotionally relaxing experience.

For the past 2 months I've been so busy with house and wedding stuff so going to the gym has not been an option. I think this was the perfect break that allowed me to stop stressing over my exercise habits and really focus on what I should do to get back to the gym routine. I decided that what I needed to do was wake up 30 minutes earlier in the morning, exercise, then come to work 30 minutes later in the day. In the beginning I would only work out 15 minutes per day then as time progressed I would increase my work out time by 5 or 10 minutes until I hit my goal of 50 minutes per session. In addition I plan on attending 2 evening mat pilates classes per week.

Today is day 2 of my new work out plan and I must admit that even though I'm not a morning person this new plan is working out beautifully. I have no excuses at 5:30 am as to why I can't go to the gym and it feels good when I get off work knowing that I can go straight home, sit on my butt, and not feel guilty! I feel like a giant weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

PS - Only down side to starting a new gym routine: I am SO hungry, ALL the time! Feed me.

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Parting of the Sensory


I'm alive ... barely. For awhile I thought that this house was going to kill me. Then I thought that the wedding was going to kill me. I was pretty sure that work was going to kill me. Then I thought that Dave was going to kill me (or I was going to kill him, whichever came first). My life is now more settled and I've never been so grateful to be able to sit down at the end of the day. For the past month my day has begun at 5:30 am and not ended until 10:30 or 11:00 pm. I know that others have it much harder then me but I couldn't help but be stressed out by all that was going on in our lives.

Things I have done in the past few weeks:
* had a bridal shower
* finished painting inside of house
* installed bamboo floors
* addressed and stuffed wedding invitations
* flew to san francisco bay area
* drove to yosemite
* toured the yosemite valley floor
* completed food tasting and wine selections for dinner (mmmm ... beef wellington)
* taken engagement photos
* met with dj and made all song selections
* had jack-n-jill shower
* packed entire apartment in one day
* moved
* broke my right hand middle finger
* unpacked entire house (holy cow it feels good to be "home")
* worked
* lost a few more pounds (I'm at 34 pounds total now)
* began working out, again (tomorrow is mat pilates and I am SO excited)

When I began this blog I never intended it to be a journal of my days. It is a nice way to keep in touch with people but I was really hoping that instead it would be a place where I could exercise my creativity and writing skills. I'm naturally an analytical thinker and sometimes I feel like I need to work extra hard at being a creative person. Unfortunately, these past few months have been so busy and I feel like I don't have time to explore my emotions. Each time I blog it ends up being some type of catch up post. This aggravates me greatly and I'm hoping in the future to change that. We'll see ...

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Things I Love

Dear 7/11 stores, Chevron Food Marts, Arco, and Other Convenience Stores

Please begin carrying my favorite water. You ruin my day when I walk into your mini-mart location only to be denied my bubbly goodness.


Sincerely,
Perrier Lover

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Brought to you by my lover, Treo

Some people have issues with their hair. They can never find the perfect hair style. Some people have issues with their personal style. One week they are hippy chic the next they are hipster. Luckily for me I've always had long-ish hair (it suits my face) and my style has always gravitated towards Gap casual and I don't really feel any need to change that.

For me my issue has always been with purses. My purse cycle always seems to go in this same order:
1. Find cheap purse that I love. Cheap purse falls apart because of shoddy workmanship.
2. Buy expensive designer purse. Fall in love with designer purse's luxurious lining and many amenities. Designer purse quickly goes out of style and I curse the fact that I just spent $250-500 on a purse that was only useful for one fashion season.
3. Go back to cheap purse (and repeat over and over).

And for fun, sometimes I also toss in these experiences:
1. Buy purse that is too big but can fit everything! Back begins to ache from carrying around mammoth purse and purse items rapidly become disorganized. As I stand at the Macy's cash register fishing for my wallet I curse big purse.
2. Buy purse that is small and cute! Unfortunately, half my stuff doesn't fit into purse and I need to leave most of my essentials at home. But! purse stays organized and is easy to carry. After certain amount of time, I attempt to fit all my essentials in compact purse and end up not being able to close the zipper/latch/etc.
3. Attempt to find perfect size purse. Fail. Purchase purse that is too small or too big (depends on my mood). Repeat cycle.

Errrr ... At this time, I've been carrying around the cutest designer purse that has this wonderful pucci silk lining. I LOVE it except for the fact that the purse is way too small and I can't fit anything in it. So my purse odyssey has begun again. I've looked at every retail store and have yet to find a purse that I like (I can't even find a picture of a purse on-line to show you an example of what I am looking for.) Luckily, I live 2 miles from a Dooney & Burke and a Coach outlet store. I've promised myself that I wouldn't go back to a designer purse that will quickly go out of season but I found these and I think they are cute (but price-y). The price we pay for a good purse. Ughhhh ...